Our society seems to give a girl child more than she can chew, from criticism, condemnation, body shaming, molestation and lots more.
Life of a girls child is mostly a concern for the society, if a girl child is not meeting up with her mates in school the parents start seeing her as a failure, they will just say “let just marry her out and save our money ” because they believe she doesn’t even need the education because her husband is responsible for her welfare.
If a girl is intelligent and achieve alot in life the society will start judging her “ah she’s sleeping with men that’s why she’s able to achieve all she has or ah see all her mates her married with kids but she’s busy with achievement ” then if eventually she’s married and couldn’t conceive the husband family will start pressuring her to give their son a heir and the society will say “she has abort all her children that’s why she couldn’t conceive” again if a girl is married with plenty kids the society will judge her for giving birth too much and they say “ah see her giving birth all the time like pig” a girl child has a very complicated life, the society doesn’t care about her opinion or happiness, she has to be what they want not what she wants.


