KIDNAPPING IN NIGERIA

Kidnapping in Nigeria
Kidnapping is a major problem in Nigeria in the early 21st century.

Kidnapping by bandits and insurgents is among the biggest organised or gang crime in Nigeria and is a national security challenge.
Kidnapping is seen as lucrative business and the shortest means to wealth by those involved in this crime. The current wave of abductions across the country makes every person a potential target regardless of social class or economic status unlike political kidnapping which started in the Nigeria’s oil-rich Niger Delta region in the early 2000s and the one by jihadist terror group, Boko Haram in Nigeria’s northeast and northwest that began in 2009 when the conflict there started.
In the Niger Delta, agitators took expatriates working with multinational oil giants hostage to force oil companies operating there to carry out community development projects for the benefit of the host communities or force government into negotiations for more of economic benefits accruing to the federal treasury for the region. Abductions by Islamist terrorist Boko Haram is to further its agenda, recruit fighters, instil fear, gain more international popularity and force the government to negotiate with it for ransom which is one of the means of generating funds for its terrorist operation. Boko Haram have committed several mass kidnappings of students. Their 2014 kidnapping of 276 teenage girls from a secondary school in Chibok, Borno State, was covered extensively by the international media, making millions of people aware of that specific crime and of the insurgency. Boko Haram often demand that victims’ families or the government pay them ransoms, or that the government release prisoners from their group.[12] Boko Haram has brainwashed and forced some of the young people it has kidnapped into joining them and carrying out attacks, including suicide bombings.[12] Boko Haram force many young female victims to marry them.
Kidnapping for ransom on a commercial scale which became rampant in Nigeria in 2011 spread across all the 36 states and the country’s capital, Abuja.
In February 2021, Nigerian journalist Adaobi Tricia Nwaubani wrote for the BBC News, “The Nigerian government seems to have suggested that it can no longer be relied on to keep citizens safe.”


Zamfara State Edit
Zamfara, one of the security dark spots in Nigeria is caught between herder-farmers clashes and kidnapping and banditry. In June 2019 a household was attacked by bandits seizing the man alongside his three wives and a 13-year-old son. In August the Director of Budget for the state was kidnapped while his deputy he had been travelling with was killed in the attack.
In 2019, the governor of Zamfara, Bello Matawalle initiated a peace and reconciliation plan to bring the bandits who attack and kidnap villagers back home offering them jobs in place of kidnapping and banditry. In August 2019 over 300 kidnapped victims who were held captive waiting for the payment of ransom on their heads by family members were freed. Days later another batch of 40 kidnap victims were freed.
Makurdi kidnapping Edit
On 24 April 2021, gunmen kidnapped students from the Federal University of Agriculture in Makurdi, in Benue State. According to eye witnesses, three students were kidnapped,[29][30][31] but two students were confirmed kidnapped later. This is Nigeria’s fifth kidnapping from an academic institution in 2021. It came just four days after the Greenfield University kidnapping. On 28 April 2021, the university released a statement confirming the return of the abducted students. According to the university’s spokesperson, the two students came back on 27 April 2021 unhurt.
While the frequency varies from one part of the country to another, PREMIUM TIMES research of cases reported in the Nigerian media from 2015 to May 2021, supported by on-the-ground reporting in some of the hotspots across the country, revealed that no part of Nigeria is insulated from the epidemic.
The study revealed that kidnapping has become perhaps the biggest security threat in the country.


Between January 2015 and May 2020, no fewer than 4,962 persons were kidnapped across the country.
Many cases are not reported to the police or by the media. Security agencies, such as the police and the Department of State Security (DSS) tasked with the primary responsibility of investigating and tackling kidnapping, also do not always record incidents of kidnapping. When they do, they are reluctant to share them with the media.
TEXEM
For several weeks this newspaper sought data from the police in several states and their headquarters in Abuja but our reporters were either told the data do not exist or the requests were not attended to.
Umar Chiroma a Fulani herder who resides in Azurfa town, Lafia L.G.A, the capital city of Nasarawa State, is a two-time victim and survivor of the dreadful gang of armed kidnappers
Umar Chiroma a Fulani herder who resides in Azurfa town, Lafia L.G.A, the capital city of Nasarawa State, is a two-time victim and survivor of the dreadful gang of armed kidnappers
The State Security Service (SSS) too did not respond to similar requests for its data on kidnapping.
The inability of security agencies to keep track is a pointer to the extraordinary volume of the scourge.
Of the 4,962 people reported as kidnapped between 2015 and May 2021, a total of 1,516 or 30.5 per cent of them were abducted between 2015 and 2017.
Kidnapping has also become a huge money-spinner, creating a thriving criminal economy, which attracts more assailants like ants to sugar.
Reported incidents in the media seldom mention how much was paid as ransom to kidnappers. However, a Lagos-based research consulting firm, SB Morgen Intelligence, estimated that between June 2011 and March 2020, Nigerians paid kidnappers an estimated $18.34 million as ransoms (N8.98 billion). According to the report, about 60 per cent of the amount was paid out between January 2016 and March 2020 alone, which is pointer to a spike in recent years.

Awyetu Jimba was on his way to his farmland at a small rural village in Zoni forest, of Toto local government area of Nasarawa state.
Awyetu Jimba was on his way to his farmland at a small rural village in Zoni forest, of Toto local government area of Nasarawa state.
“Kidnapping is becoming more democratised. More people are participating in it in more places. There is a spike in the frequency, the number of kidnapped people and the ransom paid,” said Ikemesit Effiong, Head of Research of SB Morgen Intelligence.
Not only the Fulani
There is a common presumption that rogue Fulani cattle herders are behind every kidnapping in Nigeria. However, our investigation reveals another pattern, involving people from other ethnic extractions.
In the southern part of Taraba State sharing boundaries with Benue State, survivors of abductions and family members who have negotiated ransom payments, accused gangs of Tiv origin of involvement in the cases in the area.
In April 2019, a lawyer, Lawarga Yabura, left his Wukari hometown in the morning for Takum, a journey he never completed.
“News then came that his vehicle was seen parked by the roadside with the doors open,” his younger brother, Ibrahim Iliya, said. “The kidnappers contacted us the following day and demanded N30 million to release my brother and his driver but we later agreed to N2.5 million ransom.”
Ibrahim Iliya, brother of the abducted
Ibrahim Iliya, brother of the abducted
“We raised the money within a week and gave it to them at a location but they refused to release my brother and his driver. They said it was N5 million that they wanted.
“Then, one of them later called to say he had been the one taking care of my brother but he was not given a dime from the N2.5 million we paid. He said we should send N500 thousand to a Zenith Bank account with the name Theodeus Tse, a Tiv name, and that he was going to facilitate the release of our brother and his driver. We sent the money since it involved an account number which we thought was a way to get the kidnappers by the police.”
After sending the money, Mr Iliya said they stopped hearing from any of the kidnappers and they then intensified pressure on the police to act with the account details one of them had sent.
According to records reviewed by PREMIUM TIMES, the police eventually arrested the owner of the Zenith Bank account, Mr Tse, who is based in Abuja. Mr Tse, according to the police records, said his younger brother, who is among the kidnappers, had called him to seek his account number for an “urgent transaction” He did not know it was for a criminal enterprise, he said.
Mr Tse said he forwarded the N500,000 to his younger brother and had since not heard from him again. Mr Tse remains in police custody, while his younger brother remains at large.
The victim, Mr Yabura, has not also been found. His family fears he might have been killed. “We don’t know where he is, whether dead or alive,” Mr Iliya said of his brother.
The Wukari-Takum Road has now become so dangerous that the government has banned the use of motorcycle on it. “The thinking is that motorcycles allow criminals to easily navigate in the bush,” one security official in the state capital, Jalingo, told PREMIUM TIMES.
Aside from being one of the main security concerns in the country, kidnap-for-ransom has become a source of further polarisation of the ethnic nationalities in the country.
Throughout the south of the country and much of the central region, Hausa-Fulani pastoralists who are embroiled in incessant clashes with farmers have become the kidnapping bogeymen.
The need to confront the Fulani cattle herders militiamen who are also accused of destruction of farmland, attacks on villages and other sundry criminal acts, has given birth to a motley of state-backed and non-state militias.
The community head in Toto L.G.A who simply identified himself as Alhaji Bitus
The community head in Toto L.G.A who simply identified himself as Alhaji Bitus
In January 2020, governors of South-west states launched Amotekun, a security outfit, to tackle the rising cases of attacks on farmers and communities blamed on Fulani pastoralists, growing incidents of kidnapping and other security concerns in the region.
Governors of South-eastern states recently stated they will be walking a similar path with the announcement of their agreement to set up the region’s own security outfit named Ebubeagu.
Separatist groups in the South-west and South-east, such as the Nnamdi Kanu-led Indigenous People of Biafra (IPOB) and Sunday Adeyemo’s Yoruba Nation have also tried to use the growing criminality in the regions, which they alleged are carried out by armed Fulani herders, to gain legitimacy.

The death of a 12-year-old schoolboy

in Lagos Nigeria’s commercial capital city, is generating reactions in Africa’s most populous nation.

Sylvester Oromoni Jnr, a Junior Secondary School JSS 2, student of Dowen College, Lagos southwest Nigeria died under controversial circumstances.

The school authorities claim Sylvester sustained injuries while playing football, but his family says he was instead tortured by school bullies.

“He told us that he was not playing football, he did not go to the field. he said he was in his room with his classmates sleeping on his bed in the evening,” said Sylvester Oromoni, the father of the deceased schoolboy.

The 12-year-old student succumbed to wounds allegedly suffered from a violent beat-up by school bullies on Wednesday, November 28 triggering massive outcry and condemnation in the country.

Activists, civil rights campaigners, celebrities and government authorities have expressed shock and anger at the way Sylvester died.

Following the incident, the Lagos State government sealed off the school pending the outcome of an investigation into the case.

The state government in a statement while sympathizing with the family also appealed for calm.

A legal practitioner based in Lagos, Muktar Kolawole believes the action of the state government has some form of legal backing.

“When a situation like this comes up, there is a provision under the law, under the child’s right law that empowers the government to step in to do everything within its power to ensure that justice is done to get to the root of the matter, make all the necessary inquiry. We could say as it is so far so good what the government has done is still within their capacity,” said Muktar Kolawole, a legal practitioner in Lagos.

Bullying and harassment are widespread in most Nigerian schools particularly Boarding schools but not much has been done to stem it. Civil rights campaigners and citizens are however harping on this tragic case of Sylvester Oromoni to clam for action. Nigerians are calling for the end tobullying, cultism and other forms of assaults on students.

“Parents need to be more open to their children so that their children can always confide in them whenever they have issues,” says Henry Takuju, a medical doctor.

“If you are being bullied you should speak, and that is where as a parent your kids should be able to talk to you. Because if I am going through a situation, and I know that I have somebody I am looking up to (my Parents) I should be able to talk to them and say this is what is happening I don’t like it,” said Michael, a personal trainer.

A family source said Sylvester Junior’s burial arrangements remain on hold until the cause of his death is unraveled in a planned autopsy.

Family begins search for man who jumped into Lagos lagoon

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Olalekan Odunare sitting on the handrail of the Lagos Bridge before he jumped into the lagoon

The family of a man who jumped into a Lagoon located in the Epe area of Lagos have begun searching for him.

Identified simply as Olalekan Odunare, he was spotted in a viral video sitting on the handrail of the Lagos Bridge before he jumped into the lagoon.

In the 30-sec long video, the voice of an individual filming is heard asking Olalekan what was wrong with him, but he did not respond.

The Nations reports that Olalekan is a holder of an Ordinary National Diploma (OND) certificate and a worker at Alaro City, a mega estate along the Lekki-Epe Expressway.

The reason for his suicide is yet unknown at the time of filing this report.

Many on social media have wondered why the person filming didn’t attempt to stop Olalekan from jumping into the lagoon.

Usman, a relative of Olalekan told The Punch that the family has commenced a search for him.

On Tuesday, December 14, 21-year-old Olalekan, took his life by diving into the lagoon in the Epe local government area of the state.

The Punch said Olalekan went to his girlfriend’s apartment where he told her to take care of their 1-year-old baby because they may never see each other again.

A family source who spoke to Daily Trust said: “For some time now, Olalekan has been acting strangely. For more than a week, he couldn’t sleep. He just woke up yesterday (Tuesday) to say he was going. They asked him, ‘going where? “They tried to hold him but he overpowered the people around because he was very powerful, maybe it was a spiritual attack. We could not ascertain that.

He just woke up and said he was going and that they should pray for him. They held him but he overpowered them and went straight to his girlfriend’s house to tell her to take care of his child because they might not see each other again,” the source said.

Borrowing attitude of Nigerian government

From Obasanjo to Buhari… how FG’s debt profile surged 658% to N26.9trn in 21 years


Nigeria’s public debt has been on the rise. Despite securing debt relief during the Olusegun Obasanjo-led administration, successive governments have continued on a borrowing spree — the federal government’s component of the public debt surging 658 percent to N26.9 trillion in the last 21 years.


DEBT PROFILE UNDER JONATHAN’S ADMINISTRATION
At the beginning of former President Goodluck Jonathan’s tenure in 2011, the federal government had an accumulated debt of N6.17 trillion.
Analysis of the debt figure showed that local debt amounted to N5.62 trillion while foreign debt stood at $3.5 billion (about N548.65 billion, using the exchange rate of N156.7/$1).
By the end of 2015, the foreign debt component hit $7.3 billion, while domestic debt increased by N8.4 trillion. The country’s exchange rate also stood at N197/$1.
Overall, the federal government component of the total public debt increased from N6.17 trillion in 2011 to N9.8 trillion in 2015, representing an increase of N3.63 trillion or 58.8 percent.


This has raised concerns among Nigerians on the debt sustainability of the country amid dwindling revenue to meet the debt obligations to creditors.
Within two weeks, the senate approved three different loan requests by President Muhammadu Buhari.
On July 7, 2021, the upper chamber approved a loan request of N2.343 trillion, approximately $6 billion and another $8.3 billion and €490 million.
Defending one of the loan requests, the Debt Management Office (DMO) said it is part of a borrowing plan for the 2021 budget.
“The proposed new capital raising is the new external borrowing provided in the 2021 Appropriation Act to part finance the deficit in the budget. In other words, the new capital raising has already been approved in the budgetary process by the executive and legislative arms of government,” the DMO had said in a statement.
As of March 2021, Nigeria’s total public debt has hit N33.1 trillion ($87.24 billion) — an accumulation of borrowings from successive governments, of which most were borrowed since the return to democratic rule in 1999.
The overall public debt is the total debt accrued by federal, states, and the FCT from local and international lenders.
Of the N33.1 trillion, the federal government alone borrowed N26.91 trillion — this includes the FGN bonds, Sukuk, green bonds and Euro bonds.
Finally, after weeks of data aggregation, number crunching, dissecting and analyses of freedom of information (FOI) response from the Debt Management Office (DMO), TheCable presents findings that highlight how Nigeria’s aggressive borrowing defies its fiscal responsibility laws.
The analyses also include data from the DMO, National Bureau of Statistical (NBS), andN fiscal papers from the Budget Office of the Federation.
FG DEBT CLIMBED 658% TO N26.9 TRILLION IN 21 YEARS
Data from the DMO seen by TheCable showed that federal government borrowings (local and foreign debt) climbed from N3.55 trillion in 1999 to N26.91 trillion at the end of March 2021 (the country’s latest official figure).
This represents a 658 percent increase in 21 years, comprising the administrations of Olusegun Obasanjo, Umar Musa Yar’Adua, Goodluck Jonathan, and the current Muhammadu Buhari.
HOW MUCH BUHARI BORROWED IN 6 YEARS
The Budget Office’s medium-term expenditure framework and fiscal strategy paper from 2015 showed that the Buhari-led administration incurred N7.63 trillion in domestic debt from June 2015 to December 2020.
On external borrowings, President Buhari increased debt from $7.3 billion in 2015 to $28.57 billion as of December 2020. This means that the president incurred $21.27 billion on foreign loans to the country’s debt portfolio.
The country’s exchange rate moved from N197 to a dollar in 2015 to N381 at the end of December 2020.
Analysis of consolidated debt showed that the external debt increased by 291.37 percent while domestic debt grew by 86.31 percent in the last six years of the Buhari government.
Overall, the Buhari-led government has had an accumulated debt of N17.06 trillion as of March 2021, using the N381 exchange rate. This represents a 173.2 percent increase from when he was elected president in 2015.


YAR’ADUA/JONATHAN’S BORROWINGS
Under the Umar Musa Yar’Adua/Goodluck Jonathan-led government between 2007 and 2011, domestic debt of the federal government moved from N2.17 trillion to N5.62 trillion. The foreign component of the debt also increased from $2.11 billion to $3.5 billion within the period.
The country’s exchange rate also moved from N116.8/$1 to N156.7/$1.
The combined debt profile increased from N2.42 trillion to N6.17 trillion in four years, representing a 155 percent jump.
Of the debt figure, Jonathan completed the tenure from May 2010 to May 2011 after the death of Yar’Adua. The period saw a surge in the federal government’s debt from N4.94 trillion to N6.17 trillion. This represents a 24.9 percent increase in one year.


OLUSEGUN OBASANJO’S TENURE
During the tenure of former president Olusegun Obasanjo, the debt level of the federal government reduced from N3.55 trillion in 1999 to N2.42 trillion at the end of 2007.
The 8-year term of Obasanjo resulted in a dip in FG’s local and foreign debt level, representing a 31.8 percent decline.
The country’s exchange rate was between N98.02 to N116.8 to a dollar during the tenure.
Analysis of the figures showed that external debt decreased from $28.04 billion by 1999 to $2.11 billion at the end of 2007. However, the domestic component increased from N798 billion to N2.17 trillion within the same period.
The huge decline in foreign debt was a result of the substantial reduction following the pay-off of the outstanding debts owed to the London Clubs of Creditors in the first quarter of 2007.


BUHARI, NIGERIA’S BIGGEST BORROWER, VIOLATING FINANCIAL LAWS
So far, Buhari is the country’s biggest borrower, increasing public debt (FG component) by more than 173 percent. Next to the Buhari government is the Yar’Adua/Jonathan administration with a 155 percent surge in borrowing.
The current government violates important financial laws in the country — the Fiscal Responsibility Act, and the CBN Act 2007.
Last year, the government exceeded the fiscal borrowing threshold as stipulated in the fiscal act.
Zainab Ahmed, minister of finance, budget and national planning, admitted to this on the grounds that COVID-19 was good enough reason to breach the act.
The fiscal responsibility law provides a limit of three percent debt threshold for sustainability, but the president can “exceed the ceiling if there is a clear and present threat to national security or sovereignty of Nigeria”.
In 2020, the country’s budget deficit was at about four percent of GDP, clearly breaking the law.
On overdraft, section 38, sub-section 1 and 2, of the CBN Act, said, “the Bank may grant temporary advances to the Federal Government in respect of temporary deficiency of budget revenue” and “the total amount of such advances outstanding shall not at any time exceed 5 percent of the previous year’s actual revenue of the Federal Government”.
By the end of 2020, CBN overdrafts to the Buhari government exceeded the limit by 69 percent of the revenue generated in 2019 – in a blatant violation of the apex bank rules. The government’s revenue in the year was N4.1 trillion, and overdraft stood at N2.9 trillion.
Also, Nigeria’s borrowing limit as a percent of GDP stood at 34.8 percent in 2020, well above 25 percent for the year. Earlier this year, the federal executive council (FEC) had strategically raised the borrowing limit to 40 percent in its Medium-term debt management strategy for Nigeria for the period 2020-2023.
While Nigeria’s debt-to-GDP is lower than those of its peers, its debt-to-revenue is too low to sustain the country. Of every N100 government makes in revenue, N97 now goes to debt servicing.
In the last four administrations, only Obasanjo’s team reduced public debt; his government recorded a 32 percent decline with the London Club agreement.
INCREASING PUBLIC DEBT WORRYING
While borrowing is required to support the economy, sustainability transparency and sustainable repayment plan are crucial.
Femi Oke, an economist, said Nigeria’s soaring high debt profile is not good for the country.
“The Nigerian government borrows in the worst possible way and in a very outdated manner. This causes a backlash to the government. Because Nigeria’s debts are not linked to any assets, we just go to the treasury bill market and borrow, at any rate, that anybody wants to give you,” he said.
“There are many other countries who borrow more than what Nigeria is borrowing and don’t have any problem paying back. They borrow intelligently and efficiently, in a way that their debts service themselves.
“A more efficient way of borrowing is for the Federal Government to migrate all the debts to asset-linked debts. This means structuring the borrowing transaction like investments. There must be an underlying asset to which borrowers can use to recover the principal they gave the country plus profit.”
Vahyala Kwaga, senior researcher and policy analyst at BudgIT, said the level of borrowing – specifically in 2021- is the highest it has been in the last six years.
“The government is borrowing more, spending more and earning less revenue. For context, the government budgeted about N5.37 trillion in revenue in 2020 but only earned a total of N3.42 trillion,” Kwaga said.
“There is also no commensurate rise in revenue to counteract the continuing rise in debt servicing. A casual look at the debt servicing level from 2015 to 2020 shows that the level has steadily increased since then.
“These amounts include debt servicing on interests for ‘ways and means’ and ‘sinking fund to retire maturing Loans.’”
NIGERIA’S ACTUAL DEBT COULD BE 48.7TRN


Wilson Erumebor, a senior economist at Nigerian Economic Summit Group, said Nigeria is a case where expenditure keeps rising, revenue not improving as expected, creating a wide fiscal deficit that is majorly financed by borrowing.
“While borrowing is required to support the economy, especially given the impact of the pandemic, what we need to be concerned about is how sustainable Nigeria’s debt position is,” he said.
“Debt has risen N33.1 trillion as of March 2021, an increase of 162.7% in the space of about five years.
“When we include AMCON’s liabilities and CBN’s ways and means, debt could amount to about N48.7 trillion, which is around 32 percent of GDP.
“Debt to GDP may seem quite low at 32 percent, we must understand that debt is serviced with revenues, so if debt servicing is increasing and revenue is not performing, then we have a problem.”
Erumebor suggests that the federal government must improve efficiency, transparency, blocking leakages, and deliver value on public projects, despite limited resources.
“We must work towards unlocking many sectors and many areas where the country can earn revenue.”
In 2020, the International Monetary Fund (IMF) said Nigeria’s low debt-to-GDP ratio is highly vulnerable to shocks.
“Despite Nigeria’s relatively low debt level, liquidity-based indicators-driven by low revenue mobilisation-remain concerning, with the interest bill representing a high share of government revenue (but low relative to GDP),” IMF said in its country’s report for Nigeria.
“Stress scenarios confirm the vulnerability of public debt to a low growth/wide primary deficit scenario. The interest-to-revenue ratio is particularly vulnerable to a real interest rate shock but remains sustainable.”
Recently, market researchers at United Capital also expressed concern over the country’s rising debt sustainability risk. “The government has historically justified its rising debt profile by the compliant debt-to-GDP ratio of less than 30.0%,” the research firm said.
“However, we reiterate our position that the FG’s debt service cost as a percentage of revenue is a fairer reflection of the country’s debt sustainability position.”
At an overall public debt of N33.1 trillion ($87.24 billion), the implication remains that every Nigerian owes both local and foreign organisations N165, 500.

Winners of Most Beautiful Girl in Nigeria From 2015 to 2021, And The States They Came From

A beautiful lady from Abia State, Oluchi Madubuike currently emerged as the Most Beautiful Girl in Nigeria (MBGN) for the 2021 edition that was held on the 18th of September 2021, at Eko Hotel, Victoria Island, Lagos. In this article, I will be sharing with you the winners of the most beautiful lady in Nigeria from 2015 to 2021, and the states they came from.

  1. Oluchi Chioma Madubuike (2021)

Oluchi Chioma Madubuike is a 25 years old Nigerian-American nurse, model, and beauty queen from Abia State. She lives in Detroit, Michigan, United States. She graduated from the University of Texas. 37 women came from different states to contest for the 2021 edition of the Most Beautiful Girl in Nigeria, but Oluchi Madubuike, represented Abuja was crowned the winner. She will be representing Nigeria at Miss World in December 2021.

Photo: Miss Nigeria with Evicted Big Brother Naija season 6 housemates

  1. Nyekachi Douglas

Nyekachi Douglas was the winner of the 2019 MBGN beauty pageant that was held on Friday, October 11, 2019. She is from River State, and represented River State in the competition. Douglas was rewarded with a brand new car, and represented Nigeria in the Miss World 2019 that was held in London on Dec 14, 2019.

Pressure from the society

Our society seems to give a girl child more than she can chew, from criticism, condemnation, body shaming, molestation and lots more.

Life of a girls child is mostly a concern for the society, if a girl child is not meeting up with her mates in school the parents start seeing her as a failure, they will just say “let just marry her out and save our money ” because they believe she doesn’t even need the education because her husband is responsible for her welfare.

If a girl is intelligent and achieve alot in life the society will start judging her “ah she’s sleeping with men that’s why she’s able to achieve all she has or ah see all her mates her married with kids but she’s busy with achievement ” then if eventually she’s married and couldn’t conceive the husband family will start pressuring her to give their son a heir and the society will say “she has abort all her children that’s why she couldn’t conceive” again if a girl is married with plenty kids the society will judge her for giving birth too much and they say “ah see her giving birth all the time like pig” a girl child has a very complicated life, the society doesn’t care about her opinion or happiness, she has to be what they want not what she wants.

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